If you need an attitude adjustment but lack an available partner or friend willing to provide it, professional spankers could be worth hiring. These specialists are highly trained to deliver various sensations with their bare hands or paddles.
But what exactly constitutes a spanking therapy session? Pleasure-based kink educator Corey More offers some insight.
1. They are Experienced
Spanking can be challenging and require practice to master, so finding a professional spanker with extensive experience is invaluable. She will know exactly how much pressure is necessary and make the session feel good for you; also tailoring their session specifically to meet your individual needs and goals to get maximum benefit out of each experience.
No matter the pleasure you seek from spanking – light kinky spankings, gentle sensual spankings or firmer more sexualized spankings – she knows just how to deliver. Additionally, she will help guide and advise on the optimal preparations necessary to maximize both pleasure and enjoyment from every scene.
Reputable professional spankers take great care in their services, making sure to treat each of their clients with dignity, respect, and compassion. Furthermore, they should always be honest about their abilities and limitations so as to avoid any surprises during service delivery.
Professional spankers offer you a safe and secure environment for spanking sessions, can address any concerns or issues you have, and offer advice and tips to prevent or overcome problems that arise during spanking sessions. It is crucial that novice spankers seek guidance from an experienced professional when starting out, especially as first time spanking can be daunting!
2. They are Discreet
Sexual spanking is a form of impact play in which one individual strikes another’s buttocks with their hand or other spanking implement for sexual pleasure and arousal, generally falling under BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission and Masochism) activities – this activity can be very stimulating to many individuals.
Although getting spanked may seem intimidating, when performed by a trained professional it can be an enjoyable and non-threatening experience. Spanking can also be used as an effective tool in relationships to increase foreplay, extend sex sessions further.
However, it’s essential to keep in mind that any sexual spanking should be voluntary and mutually enjoyable. Partners should communicate clearly about their desires and boundaries during sexual spanking; setting up a safeword (an indicator word or signal that when spoken aloud should indicate to end immediately) is also crucial for safety and enjoyment.
Communication issues or misunderstand of desired results may lead to psychological discomfort and resentment for some participants, particularly if boundaries are crossed or the situation becomes coercive. If interested in sexual spanking, it is crucial that all parties involved receive informed consent prior to beginning. For safety’s sake it would also be prudent to consult a professional and obtain clear consent before beginning.
3. They are Trained
Spanking can be a valuable tool for parents in disciplining their children, yet some individuals believe it should be banned as abuse. Actually, spanking is legal in 22 states as part of corporal punishment – parents should adhere to child safety laws when spanking their child when necessary.
Parents should avoid spanking their children as an approach to solving problems by offering options instead of spankings. For instance, when children misbehave in public settings such as school or church, giving them options such as going home or remaining will often defuse situations without hitting. It will also make their kids more likely to listen.
Parents must also remember that spanking can cause emotional trauma for children. A spanking may result in post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). PTSD has serious repercussions for the victim including depression and anxiety as well as leading to self-harming behaviors or suicidal thoughts in some instances.
Many BDSM practitioners utilize spanking therapy as an avenue to relieve stress, explore power play and let go of trauma. Anyone looking to experience this form of kink should consult with a spanking therapist for guidance and training, or attend classes offered at local sex shops or via online tutorials. Before engaging in spanky spanking experiences with their partner(s), always discuss consent and boundaries beforehand.
4. They are Insured
Spanking can be used both for discipline and pleasure in a safe, consensual environment. It can relieve stress, explore power play or release trauma; hiring a professional spanker allows individuals to experience these emotions without feeling guilty or at risk of getting caught.
Spanking may be necessary in certain instances, for instance if your child ventures into traffic and you want them to learn its danger. But parents skilled at giving their children choices are much more likely to avoid spanking. Hiring a disciplinarian may also provide single people with an attitude adjustment or those who need an attitude change with vanilla husbands an outlet while remaining focused on work and family commitments.